The Sickness That Almost Broke Me (And How I Reframed It)


Reader,

This email is a bit raw, I'm not gonna lie.

A few weeks ago, I started getting sick. I was lethargic, my recovery and HRV was down, without explanation.

Then the fevers kicked in - 9 straight days curled up in a ball on the couch.

Oscilating from freezing cold, to sweating through my clothes and bed.

My wife, who's a doctor was very worried - "this is not normal."

3 blood tests revealed spiked liver and kidney enzymes.

Tested negative for all viral and tick born disease.

Then I got pneumonia, and I was completely shut down.

I haven't been this sick since I got mono in high school and lost 17 pounds in 10 days.

I'm still weak, still not back to normal
Still don't know what's wrong

Old me would have been a bitter, pissed off mess focused on all the wrong things:

Can't work out because I take 3 steps and I'm out of breath
Can't help around the house cuz I sleep all day
Can't impact my clients in the ways I want

Not "productive"
Not "producing"

But you know what? I'm HAPPY.

Because I did the work to re-orient my perspective on everything in my life -

Dr. Richard Boyatzis (the pre-eminent researcher on intentional change) calls this the Positive Emotional Attractor.

BTW: I just interviewed Richard on my Breaking Work Podcast! You're gonna want to listen to this one.

Now I'm focused on:

I've got people supporting me
Puppy licking my face
Kids loving on me

And I'm still connected as ever to my mission
Just taking the long view.

Old me: pissed at the world, blaming others, thinking lost productivity was the worst thing ever

New me: happy, content, foaming at the mouth to get back after it, and thankful I get to

The difference?

I took charge of my life and everything in it.
Not just "results", but how I operate as the best version of myself.
In all areas - not just "work"

Today, if this email hits you, do me a favor - stop. Slow down, smell the roses. Hug your kids.
Then keep going.

Light that 🔥,


Mike

P.S. If this resonated, I help successful professionals break their corporate dependence and build self-directed lives. Book a call here: https://calendly.com/gardon/freedom-scan-chat

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